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Safety

We’re glad you’re here — and we want you to stay safe while you’re here. Here’s how.

Don’t Step Outside the Safety Zone

Our detection systems can’t monitor external apps. Keep your chats here.

Connect on Video — Carefully

Say hello face-to-face online, then confirm offline details. Deepfakes can fake appearances remarkably well.

Don’t Be Pressured

If someone insists on private photos, they may plan to use them for blackmail.

Go Somewhere Social

A restaurant or busy park gives you company and safety. Save private spaces for later, if ever.

Share Your Schedule

Before meeting someone, send a message to a trusted contact with your plans.

Never Go Without Your Phone

Charge it, check credit, and keep it with you throughout your date.

Stay Safe, Travel Alone

Always meet at the location using your own or public transport.

Keep Decisions Easy

Low alcohol helps you make clear decisions and exit if needed.

Go Home Alone and Safe

After your first meeting, travel home yourself and skip home invites.

Be Open, Be Positive

Enjoy getting to know new people — every chat is a new possibility.